Respite break proves just the tonic for Lynsey and her Mum
As a retired registered nurse, Lynsey was used to being busy and dependable, but after years of caring for her Mum, Flo, at home, she recognised that she needed a break.
It wasn’t that she needed a holiday, or to ‘get away from it all’ – she just needed to catch her breath.
This realisation prompted Lynsey to research respite breaks for her Mum. Having worked in care homes, she had seen the benefits that a short stay could offer – both to the respite guest, and their family carers.
An important choice
Lynsey sought a home where Flo could be comfortable, and where she could have confidence in the quality of care.
After thorough research, Lynsey chose Greenhill House residential and dementia care home in Cheddar for her Mum’s respite break:
“When we visited Greenhill House, prior to my mum going in for respite care for a week, I was impressed by the friendly staff, pleasant surrounding and relaxed atmosphere. I had researched many homes and it was important to find the right one, as this was the first time she had gone into a home as a resident.
“The food is excellent, plentiful and varied, with a snack bar available, so the residents can help themselves if they get hungry throughout the day. The activities are also varied, led by helpful and enthusiastic team leaders.
“As a retired registered nurse, I have worked in many homes and would rate this as one of the best.
“I wouldn’t hesitate to use Greenhill House again or recommend to others.”
Benefits for all
Whilst Lynsey took a well-earned break from being her carer, Flo enjoyed the change of scene that her respite break provided – so much so, that she asked when she could return!
Flo now visits Greenhill House three times every week for day care, and loves joining her new friends for activities and mealtimes.
Flo (right) with new friend Maureen at Greenhill House
This new routine means that Flo’s care needs are no longer all-consuming for Lynsey. Instead, their newfound lifestyle balance has enabled Flo and Lynsey to re-establish their mother-daughter relationship.
There is strength in seeking support
It can be hard to acknowledge when you need help – especially with something you might consider your ‘duty’, like caring for a loved one.
However, caring is a profession which requires specialist training – it is not something that we are automatically equipped to do. And, whilst we might feel responsible for the care of those we love, the emotional strain this adds makes it more challenging.
No matter how much you might want to, you can’t pour from an empty cup.
A respite break provides a chance to rest, recharge and reset, safe in the knowledge that your loved one is being well cared for.
Supporting your independence
Somerset Care’s day care and respite services support you and your loved ones to live independently at home, for as long as possible.For information and advice, please contact our expert enquiries team, who will be happy to assist you.
